How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 01:41
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Where can I sell naked pics of myself online?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Making more friends is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Does any other guys get turned on by dick pic makes you lick lips because you what to suck?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why am I sweating so much at night even though my room is really cold?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Does not procrastinate.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the dirtiest thing you have witnessed your wife do?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Which feels physically better for guys: vaginal sex or anal sex?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How do schizophrenia symptoms change throughout the day?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
That's it for today.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hangs out with loser friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Procrastinates a lot.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Ask yourself:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.